Everyone know that, we are all born alone and die alone. Different societies of the world are the example of living styles. As we believe in strong social norms of our societies. Which connects us each other as we live in a world of constant contacts. But apart of all these norms, spending time alone make the man creative. So try to “Be Alone, Be Creative” and get amazing benefits of spending time alone.
“As I get older, I’m more and more comfortable being alone”- (Sienna Miller)
The norms of society, strong traditions and religious norms always make bound us with family, relatives, neighbors, groups, nations and then our global society (this lovely world). All these also provides us bad companies, bad companies environment and good companies too. But the new emerging e-system, social sites, social apps continuous encouraging us to connect with all above pillars with e-system.
“Autobiography begins with a sense of being alone. It is an orphan form”- (John Berger)
We are adopting new modern technologies and very speedily running away from physical relations. We have no time to meet with family, friends and relatives to discuss our own matters, but we have enough time to discuss globalization issue on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest, Blogs and many other sources.
“I love to be alone. I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude” (Henry David Thoreau)
I am not encouraging youth to live alone because there are so many benefits for people being involved in social interactions. Because, by evolutionary experience of depending upon each other, we are a social species and we are affiliating with others for our very survival in a harsh world. In a society like America’s, it can be sublime and revealing to enjoy your time alone.
But, on other hands, “the creature of this beautiful world is alone” and there are amazing benefits we can avail through spending time alone. Leave bad companies and be alone be creative: As Amy Sedaris said, “I think it’s good for a person to spend time alone. It gives them an opportunity to discover who they are and to figure out why they are always alone”.
Benefits of Spending Time Alone
“Never say you are alone, for you are not alone, your God and your genius is within”~ Epictetus
1. Spending Time Alone Encourages Creativity:
It’s easier to get into a creative space, when you’re alone so you can dream of new ways of doing things. You can come up with innovative ideas and we can write down your thoughts or you can ponder better approaches to get things done. It’s just when have focused and not interruptions impeding your musings and thoughts.
2. The Time to Recharge:
A human can’t work like machine, you need rest, I relate to feeling exhausted after full day working, you need to take time for yourself and recharge your own machine (body). Again, I want to make clear that, I am not discouraging to be a social but just encouraging you just switch off your all connections and live sometimes alone and recharge yourself.
3. To Enjoy Your Own Company:
You will be a best friend to others, when you will be able to learn “to be with yourself”. When, we saw an alone girl is reading a book at the window side seat of train, don’t decide that she is lonely and spending alone among society or being selfish is not always a bad thing. Sometimes be selfish is better than spending time with bad companies.
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4. You Can Do Anything You Want To:
Just spare only one hour a day form your very busy life, leave our plans, leave your meetings, leave your all programs and spend alone with yourself. In that time, you can do whatever you want, sing, dance, meditate, draw your thoughts, write-down your emotions, feelings. You can do anything you want when you spend alone.
5. Get Proactive About Creating Time to Be Alone
A society is a group of peoples with common territory, interaction and culture but society is not he name of diversity and we are social species by evolutionary experience. By nature, human had been thinking to be a part of diversity and they established the pluralistic Societies, An American Society is the example of Pluralistic Society because it is composed of many groups of peoples.
By society we have so many bindings, must follow them by nature we are alone, and we are able to make presentable our beautiful ideas for other by spending time alone. Just try to create the quit time for yourself it will give back to you the best version of yourself.
“Imagination is more important than knowledge”- (Albert Einstein)
The re so many amazing benefits you will find when you keep practice of spending alone but not limited;
- You will explore your interests by spending alone.
- Can wear whatever you feel like wearing,
- You can eat whatever you want to eat,
- It will teach you a lot about yourself.
- You can be yourself without judgment.
- Will not be being influenced by others around you.
- You will improve the quality of your relationships with others.
- It will help you become more independent.
- You will Increase your Emotional Intelligence
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Don’t wait for inspiration, you must go after it, Of course! spend time alone, will boost Your Productivity:
last updated by Lifestyle Guru: 11/03/2019