My previous post was “To make any relationship easier – Lifestyle guru” in which, I described the to make relationships easier. There are so many questions that have been asked on WhatsApp, Messenger and Comment box. Hence, I tried to answer some of the questions in this topic Habits That Destroys Relationships you should avoid.
Habits That Destroys Relationships
The relationship is not a gift box of chocolates on only Valentine’s Day. It is the name of continuous struggling and caring for your loved one for every second of life. Caring is one of the best habits which can make a satisfying relationship and ensure a happy life. But, there are so many reasons, which destroy relationships you should avoid that, I have tried to explain in this article. On the other hand, you will get some important tips which are the guarantee of satisfying relationships if you started avoiding the negative habits.
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Try is the key to success and whenever you stop trying, absolutely you will lose the relationships. It has been observed that the breakup of relations, diverse, family crises are increasing day by day. Always very small mistakes create the big misunderstandings which destroy the strongest relationships, including blood and romantic relations.
The Habits you should avoid
Following are some key bad habits which your relationship very badly;
Finding faults and complain
All the relationships are based on trust, understanding, and forgiving but the bad habit caused the breakup of relationships. Always finding faults and complaining is the bad habit that destroys the trust in two loving souls. It is proved that no one likes criticism, complaints, and rejection in the relationship. You should avoid this bad habit.
Lack of understanding and taking personal
If you both are lacking in understating each other and everyone is taking personally others’ every act, it means you are destroying your relationship. Perfection is another thing but, has trust in your partner is the perfection of relationships, you must ensure it in your relationships. Never take anything personally and always believe in each other and give unlimited chances to your loved one for saving the relationship.
The immoral attitude makes the person selfish and careless. This evil attitude will hurt other partners and the relationship comes to end. The immoral attitude also involves you in many other bad habits such as late-night return, spending more time with bad circles, drinking, smoking, etc. This immoral attitude can be the key cause that destroys relationships you should avoid.
Feeling insecurities and trying to change each other
When you have not to trust your partner, you feel insecure and will like to change your partner according to your wishes. Don’t try to change others but do change yourself and make your world peaceful, loving and caring. This insecurity feeling and try to change the wishes, habits, and the emotion of your partner always leads to the end of relationships.
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External interference in your relationship
Mostly in joint family systems, above 70% of couples are living fake lives, due to the unnecessary and unfair interference of relatives, family members in the personal matters and relationships. Also, the relatives’ interference is the key cause of breaking relationships, divorce, and separations. This is one of the negative habits that destroy relationships, you should avoid the unnecessary interference of your parents, relatives and family members in your relationships.
Fake life without love in the lie
The involvement of external factors, not trusting, always criticizing the second name of lying with life or living a fake life without love and satisfaction. Every relation is based on caring, compromising, understanding with honesty and without lying and except these positive habits, your negativity will destroy relationships, you should avoid the negative habits.
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Cheating and salting the partner
Hiding the mistakes, making illegal and unfair relations, visiting unavoidable sites/places without informing to partner, hidden spending time and money, telling a lie and more worst is this when you are holding the hand of another person (male/female) in front of your partner. It is totally cheating and salting your partner. It is the worst condition of your relationship. The real relationship can’t be built over the night, it takes time so do care about your relationships and must avid these bad habits.
Bonus Point to avoid destroy the relationship
Remember that, only relationship end but stories never end, so don’t be a story in society and circle. Don’t anger on your partner, boy/girlfriend, never fight on public places, never share your internal matters to external relatives. Love born immediately, grow slowly, and take more time to be mature, the breakup is the outcome of immature love. Don’t kill your love in rumors and unnecessary and unfair acts. Take time, give time and compromise on your wishes for the wishes of your loved one.
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Last Updated: April 07, 2020