My previous post was “To make any relationship easier – Lifestyle guru” in which, I described the to make relationships easier. There are so many questions that have been asked on WhatsApp, Messenger and Comment box. Hence, I tried to answer some of the questions in this topic Habits That Destroys Relationships you should avoid.
Contents of the Article
Habits That Destroys Relationships
The relationship is not a gift box of chocolates on only Valentine’s Day. It is the name of continuous struggling and caring for your loved one for every second of life. Caring is one of the best habits which can make a satisfying relationship and ensure a happy life. But, there are so many reasons, which destroy relationships you should avoid that, I have tried to explain in this article. On the other hand, you will get some important tips which are the guarantee of satisfying relationships if you started avoiding the negative habits.
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Try is the key to success and whenever you stop trying, absolutely you will lose the relationships. It has been observed that the breakup of relations, diverse, family crises are increasing day by day. Always very small mistakes create the big misunderstandings which destroy the strongest relationships, including blood and romantic relations.
The Habits you should avoid
Following are some key bad habits which your relationship very badly;
Finding faults and complain
All the relationships are based on trust, understanding, and forgiving but the bad habit caused the breakup of relationships. Always finding faults and complaining is the bad habit that destroys the trust in two loving souls. It is proved that no one likes criticism, complaints, and rejection in the relationship. You should avoid this bad habit.
Lack of understanding and taking personal
If you both are lacking in understating each other and everyone is taking personally others’ every act, it means you are destroying your relationship. Perfection is another thing but, has trust in your partner is the perfection of relationships, you must ensure it in your relationships. Never take anything personally and always believe in each other and give unlimited chances to your loved one for saving the relationship.
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Immoral Attitude
The immoral attitude makes the person selfish and careless. This evil attitude will hurt other partners and the relationship comes to end. The immoral attitude also involves you in many other bad habits such as late-night return, spending more time with bad circles, drinking, smoking, etc. This immoral attitude can be the key cause that destroys relationships you should avoid.
Feeling insecurities and trying to change each other
When you have not to trust your partner, you feel insecure and will like to change your partner according to your wishes. Don’t try to change others but do change yourself and make your world peaceful, loving and caring. This insecurity feeling and try to change the wishes, habits, and the emotion of your partner always leads to the end of relationships.
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External interference in your relationship
Mostly in joint family systems, above 70% of couples are living fake lives, due to the unnecessary and unfair interference of relatives, family members in the personal matters and relationships. Also, the relatives’ interference is the key cause of breaking relationships, divorce, and separations. This is one of the negative habits that destroy relationships, you should avoid the unnecessary interference of your parents, relatives and family members in your relationships.
Fake life without love in the lie
The involvement of external factors, not trusting, always criticizing the second name of lying with life or living a fake life without love and satisfaction. Every relation is based on caring, compromising, understanding with honesty and without lying and except these positive habits, your negativity will destroy relationships, you should avoid the negative habits.
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Cheating and salting the partner
Hiding the mistakes, making illegal and unfair relations, visiting unavoidable sites/places without informing to partner, hidden spending time and money, telling a lie and more worst is this when you are holding the hand of another person (male/female) in front of your partner. It is totally cheating and salting your partner. It is the worst condition of your relationship. The real relationship can’t be built over the night, it takes time so do care about your relationships and must avid these bad habits.
Bonus Point to avoid destroy the relationship
Remember that, only relationship end but stories never end, so don’t be a story in society and circle. Don’t anger on your partner, boy/girlfriend, never fight on public places, never share your internal matters to external relatives. Love born immediately, grow slowly, and take more time to be mature, the breakup is the outcome of immature love. Don’t kill your love in rumors and unnecessary and unfair acts. Take time, give time and compromise on your wishes for the wishes of your loved one.
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Last Updated: April 07, 2020
Great read. I am definitely guilty of some of these from time to time!
Thanks Devin,
It’s true, relationships take effort and the desire for each of us to give more than we receive.
Yes Jen, relationship needs more efforts
Relationships are a lot of work and it always goes both ways. True that putting the blame on the other or never reaching for a compromise or trying to understand the other can really ruin a relationship.
Again thanks for your visit and comment.
Relationships are hard. And it is not something you can create and then just not work on ever again. Relationships are constant work in progress and understanding your partner. This is a great article and makes you think again about how we treat people in our lives.
Yes Julia, Relationship is not a mechanical science, which can be assemble by a specific manual, relationship need care with proper understanding on each foot step.
Great advice. As someone who has come through various relationship issues, I saw a lot of what caused them within this.
Yes Nyxie you are right.
These are all so true. I’ve gone through my fair share of bad relationships. Thankfully they’ve all helped me to find the relationship I’m in now, which is so strong.
It is my pleasure, if my tips are helpful for you.
Yup, I do avoid people with these habits. I don’t have the patience for them.
Amber, you must avoid the bad habits too.
This is a really good post highlighting a lot of valid points.I think the most important factors in any relationship of trust, understanding and compassion.
Agreed Nayna, trust, understanding are the base of healthy and easier relationships.
Relationships are a lot of work, thanks for your tips!
Thank you Katie,
Great points. I think it’s SO important to remember that a real relationship is not one built on the premise of changing the person that you’re with. You can’t change a person unless they want to change – Instead, we need to enter into a relationship where we can love the person where they’re at as well as supporting them if they choose to embark on the journey of self-improvement at some point. But remember, they may never take that route!
Thank you Britt, for your endorsement, and feedback on this topic.
This is a great list of things to avoid doing in our relationships. I think we all do some of these from time to time. So it is good to keep them in mind and consciously try to substitute better and nicer habits instead. The more encouraging both people can be in a relationship, the better.
Yes Marie, We must encourage more each other, in all relations. Good habits will ensure the better relationships.
This is definitely everything what I would put on the list. I could not agree more with you. Everyone who wants to built a strong relationship should read it.
These are good key points for any type of relationship. Thanks for the info!
It is so easy to find faults in others. These are things that I should work on with my spouse
Agreed Tara, focus on your partner and relationship.
These are all really good points…
Everybody’s relationship is so unique…everybody has different needs–But respect, trust, care, and appreciation are all things that EVERYBODY needs to have a healthy relationship.
These are all really important things to consider when moving into a relationship. I feel like some people don’t place a lot of importance on some of these and they can be what makes or breaks the relationship. Thank you for sharing.
Very helpful advice! being in a relationship really requires teamwork. It also pays to ask from time to time, “where did I go wrong?” and “What else do i need to improve?” 🙂
Finding faults and complain is what I am guilty of and with this article being helpful I will have to change. Thanks for sharing.
I agree. These habits can break a relationship.
This a great article for anyone dating, or even in a relationship.
relationships do take effort and work to make them work. Communication really is the key in my experience.
A lot of these people dont even realize will easily take down a relationship. this is why they take work and effort and if both people arent willing to give 100% they wont be able to make it work
Both side needed give 100%. agreed Tia McKinzie
This is some really great advice! Thanks for the share.
This is such a great read. Thanks for sharing it. For good relationship trust and understanding is crucial.
This is an interesting take on things, but I do not believe that breakups are caused by immaturity. Sometimes there are valid reasons that relationships can’t work aside from any of these bad habits.
These are really good point to take for relationship. As someone that has issues in relationship, I will be taking some points from here.
These are all good points to take note! Let’s reverse everything and work on nurturing the relationship to grow more.
Literally all of these can lead to a toxic relationship and while they are not always intentional deffo something to try avoid
Laura x
Yes Laura you are right because you are a feminist….
I agree with all of these habits! These are toxic habits that people should avoid in general. You need to feel confident and trust each other as much as possible. At the same time, it is important to be truthful to yourself and others. There is no point in living a fake life. Thanks for sharing all of these – this is something everyone needs to follow!
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