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How To Make Your Life Less Complicated

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Bee Jay
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The real essence of life is achieving your personal and professional goals and meeting your objectives. Thinking about achieving the goals, planning for it, and working hard for achieving personal and professional goals, which makes your life more complicated, otherwise, life is not more complicated. Nonetheless, by making any small improvements in our everyday lives, and SMART planning of goals, you will improve everything and learn how to make your life less complicated.

How to make your life less complicated?

Life is an art, if you are thinking that it is an abstract art then it very complicated if you are understanding it as a free-hand, memory, or object art, it is very wonderful and lovely. So, let us learn how to make your life so easy and trying to simplify things to make life less complicated.

how to make your life betterHere are some perfect tips to make your life easy just STOP;

  • Trying to be perfect all the time
  • Meaning what you don’t say
  • Spending time with negative people
  • Pretending like you know everything
  • Thinking for other people
  • Trying to change people

Trying to be perfect all the time

Want to be happy? Stop trying to be perfect – Brené Brown

Try to be good and try to be useful If you want to be happy and less complicated life. The choice to be perfection makes you unhappy in life. Don’t worry about mistakes but always try to learn from mistakes and try to do good but don’t wait for perfection it will increase your stress and more complicated life.

Life is totally dynamic nothing is set, and nothing is finite in life, so everyone is trying to set it and make it perfect. Stop trying to be perfect all the time and decrease the stress in your life because no one is perfect except GOD. Only GOD is perfect all the time.

Meaning what you don’t say

Always say what you mean and mean what you say. Express how you feel and don’t ever apologize for being real. (anonymous)

First of all, always remember that no one can’t read minds, do communicate effectively, clearly, and regularly. Don’t believe in assumption and don’t try to read the minds of your friends, relatives, boss, and coworkers because it is the sign of bad communication.

Spending time with negative people

You cannot expect to live a positive life if you hang with negative people – Joel Osteen

The environment around you matters a lot, if you are living among negative people, it will drain your strength and cause you to feel stuck and depressed. Find out the negative peoples around you and cut them out from your routine life and make your life less complicated. If you will not avoid completely, individually they can become the cause of many problems. Negative people also have an impact on what you think. If you are not careful, negative people can bring out the worst in you. Stop spending time with negative peoples, if you are thinking about how to make your life less complicated.

Pretending like you know everything

Unless your name is google, stop pretending like you know everything – anonymous

Don’t figure out the things, you have not to command over that. Don’t pretend if you don’t know anything about the matter. Be optimistic and accept the facts of the situation if you have not enough knowledge or information about that. No one is a master of everything so stop pretending like you know everything. As soon as you will accept the ground realities, you will stop making the mistakes and the more you unlock new windows of success in your life.

Thinking for other people

You have no responsibility to live up to what other people think you ought to accomplish. I have no responsibility to be like they expect me to be. It’s their mistake, not my failing – Richard P. Feynman

Stop thinking for other people is one of the most meaningful skills of life, it is the guaranty of your successful life. To discuss the matters of other people is easy but don’t think about other people’s thoughts is an important skill.

Are you always concerned about what others are thinking about you? Or, do you worried about people being able to judge you and what you are doing? Then you doing wrong stop thinking about this, come out from this stress, and think about how to make your life less complicated.

Trying to change people

When you stop trying to change others and work on changing yourself, your world changes for the better – anonymous

It’s a bad thing to try to change others. Make your rules and follow your rules is the world’s best habit but making your rules for other world is a very bad and craziest habit. Almost everyone tries to change someone other, like behavior change of relatives, friends, family members, boy/girlfriend, and coworker but it is not a good habit. If you want to change the world then the world hard to reach on the top and change the rules otherwise you must follow the rules and make your rules only for you. If are always thinking about changing other people and making your own life more complicated, then stop trying to change peoples and make your life less complicated.

Worrying and complaining

Stop complaining about how your life isn’t what you want and start making your life the way you want it to be.” Anonymous

There is a famous saying that those people who complains the most accomplish the least Therefore, always try to focus on certain things which you can follow and overcome easily. Stop complaining or worrying about those things which you can’t handle or overcome. Because those things really badly affect on your imagination or even on you.

Conclusion

Don’t worry about your mistakes because mistakes will lead you to success. Also never try for perfection because no one is perfect except God. If you will continue trying to be perfect, it will increase your problems and stress level. Follow all above mentioned tips, if you are thinking for how to make your life less complicated. It is said that the problems are part of life and how to overcome them is art of life. We can’t stop problems to come in our life and to make our life complicated, but we can try to make the chances less of making it complicated.

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Last Updated: August 04, 2020

A Visit to Gorakh Hill – A coldest Point in The Hottest Area

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Bee Jay
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A coldest point

It was the time of Eid Holidays when we decided to visit some historical places of Sindh included a visit to Gorakh Hill a world-famous tourist place of Sindh Pakistan. It is also called the Murree of Sindh. A coldest point in the hottest area “Gorakh Hill” is situated in Dadu Sindh, which is about 1734 meters (above 5689 feet) altitude in the Khirthar Mountains ranges, at about 94 kilometers in the northwest of Dadu City. Gorakh Hill is a nice place with beautiful views, pleasant weather at night about 5c, and day 10 to 25c temperature. Also, a famous place by its nightlife specially bonfire and camping setup.

Background

The word Gorakh is derived from the Sanskrit language which means “shepherding of sheep, cow, and goat”. The name of this a coldest point Gorakh Hill Station is also associated with a popular Hindu preacher “Gorakh Nath”. It is one of the highest uplands of Sindh. Which is spread over 10 square kilometers (about 2500 acres) of the land of kherthar mountain ranges. The kherthar mountain ranges make the borderline between the Sindh and Balochistan provinces of Pakistan.

A visit to Gorakh Hill

Last night we came from “Sindh Rani” Shaheed Benazir Bhutto Mazar to Dadu. It was the long route and very hot day, when we reached Dadu. It was very hot there, it felt like, we in fire and skin is burning. After one to two hours just felt that AC is working, and the room temperature is going down. We got good rest and get early in the morning after having breakfast. We left Hotel at 6:00 am for Gorakh Hill station via Johi and Wahi Pandhi.

It was the summer, so the normal temperature was near to 45c. We stopped different spots just for using the washroom and get some cold drinks, because the warm wind and high temperature hit us hard. We continued our journey and reached at Wahi Pandhi via Johi road. After having a cup of tea moved towards Gorakh Hill, local peoples said that it is not possible to go there by car, but we moved by car to one other stop Bozdar Abad Restaurant which is about on one-hour drive by car. We stayed there for two hours just enjoyed the beautiful views of Kerthar Mountain Ranges.

Adventure jeep ride

Finally, we reached Bozdarabad Restaurant, left our car there and hired 4×4 jeep, we were seated in that jeep and started a wonderful journey to a coldest point Gorakh Hill Station, it was an adventure for us. It was an extremely dangerous road with high and low jumps. We reached our final destination Gorakh Hill at about 2:00 PM.

Gorakh Hill Station The jeep rides are a vital part of the voyage also there is not any other option to reach on top of the hill station. You will feel the cold wind on your skin as you ride in the open jeeps. This is a sensation you don’t want to miss on the dangerous and beautiful roads.

A coldest Point in The Hottest Area

And as we finally arrived at the Gorakh hill; it was quite sunny weather; the cool breeze was breezing, and the sun was not much heating. Everything seems to be wonderful and the view from the top of the hill was so lovely and mesmerizing. That was quite a peaceful place and luckily was not crowded at that time so, we easily enjoyed visiting and exploring the whole place. But yeah, a tragedy also occurs with me was that I realized, my cam’s battery was completely dead, and I was unable to capture those moments for my memory.

The place was quite a big place, so it took a long time to explore it completely. Small shops were found on every spot which has all of the food items or snacks, and Many plants were also planted there which makes that place look more attractive. On the other hand, there was a guide too, which helped us to know more about the place.

Local Peoples of Gorakh Hill

The tent was already booked, just stayed a few minutes in the tent moved to explore the beauty of the coldest place of the hottest area of Sindh. I was some settlement of local peoples of that area, I just moves to them and tried to talk with them.

A woman welcomed me and asked that where are your from and what have you seen here on Gorakh Hill? I said, I belong to the Thar Desert and it is a mountain, so I am enjoying here a moment and every step of the visit. I just asked how is your life here? She said, they are living a very tough and hard life, now they are here and when winter will start, and temperature will go down they will migrate to lowlands areas they will stay there till the end of winter. I also saw the donkeys that were so healthy than the donkey I saw in the Thar Desert.

Hiking and Sunset

There is a beautiful track on the top of the mountain. We walked through and enjoyed the beautiful valley and ranges of kherthar mountain. The route was amazing, we went to the west top point and then moved down and then upside the mountain. Where we enjoyed the hiking and we stayed there till sunset. It was an amazing time and the scene was bewildering during sunset. We captured the beautiful moments of our family visit and return to our tent.

I was so interested to stay there and enjoy the bonfire and nightlife and explore the voice of wild animals in the silence of mountains. But my mother said we should have to move back. So, we moved without capturing the beautiful moments if the sun rising from Gorakh Hill. The visiting Gorakh Hill, a coldest point of the hottest area was an amazing and great experience and truly stunning trip.

Bonfire_at_Gorakh_Hill_Station

Bottom Point

I highly recommended for travelers and tourists to visit the Gorakh Hill Station “The coldest place of the hottest area of Sindh. Whenever you would like to visit you must plan your night stay there and enjoy the nightlife of kherthar Mountain Ranges.

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Last Updated: August 03, 2020

July Goals Review – 5 Steps to Set Up Your Goals of August

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Abu Janus
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I was not much confident due to the COVID-19 pandemic, when I shared my July Goals at the beginning of this month but today I am much confident to share my July goal review and 5 steps to set up your goals of August 2020.

The month of July has been an amazing month, in which I experienced a different situation but now I feel refreshed and uplifted because I am going to set up my goals of August 2020. I also feel empowered because I achieved my July goals rather, I faced some difficult time during this month.

July Goals Review

The goals of July 2020, which I planned, achieved, and failed to achieve.

  • During this month I strictly followed the COVID-19 SOPs at the workplace, public place, and social events. Also, I tried to follow the social distance and COVID-19 Safety measures in all events, travel, and gatherings.
  • This year we celebrated the Birthday of my dear daughter very simply due to the COVID-19 pandemic.
  • I have finalized the working on Annual Tax Return 2019-20, it will be submitted as Federal Board of Revenue (FBR) allowed to submit.
  • A total of 12 articles were planned, and I have published a total of 15 articles including today’s July goals review.
  • It was planned that YouTube Channel will be restarted, So I achieved it by publishing 4 videos. Still have not started law practice but we are going to establish our office in the first week of August 2020.
  • Successfully completed the targets and revise the remaining five months targets and submitted for final approval.
  • Attended the marriage ceremonies and followed the social media goals of June. According to the analytics, overview improved the level of Pinterest and other social media networks.

5 Steps to Set Up Your Goals of August

As a planner, I would like to suggest whenever you try to set up your goals, you must follow a straightforward approach of actionable objectives and steps when setting your monthly targets to make sure that you are not only planning your targets but still having the potential to reach them.

how to set up your goalsHere, I am sharing five actionable and steps to set up your goals of August.

  1. Select your choices
  2. Set your specific goals, which you can achieve in one month
  3. Prepare a quick action plan, which will help you accomplish your goals
  4. Review your progress and follow your resources
  5. Always stay motivated

Select your choices

Everyone has not the option to select the choices, and many peoples are living without any choices because they have not any plan for living life. If you want to live your life happily and want to change your life you must follow the life planning guidelines. When you are going to set up your goals of moth, first of all, you have to select your choices and then some specific goals of the month.

Set your specific goals

The second step of setting up monthly goals is to set up some specific choices, which you can achieve in one month. You must be more specific when you set and prioritize your goals always remember that these goals must be SMART.

Prepare a quick action plan

Write down your periodized goals and make a quick action plan for each goal, which will help you accomplish your goals timely. As someone wisely said that without planning the goal is just wish, so planned your wishes properly.

Review your progress and follow your resources,

Monitoring is the key step of goal planning and achieving cycle, keep reviewing and monitoring your progress towards your planned goals and allocated resources including time.

Always stay motivated

To stay motivated is not possible for everyone but most of the planners and self-confident peoples always remain motivated. Your motivation will make you able to confident towards your targets. Never give space to negative thoughts in your mind and always be steadily optimistic in your life and focus on the positive side of your targets and which will make you inspired, motivated to achieving your targets.

Let us take action set up your goals of August, plan whatever you want to achieve this month, and hold yourself accountable to your life.

Goals of August 2020

  • The situation is not still safe so there is needed to strictly follow the COVID-19 safety measures and WHO’s guidelines and SOPs at the workplace, public place, and social events. And also follow the social distance and COVID-19 Safety measures in all events, travel, and gatherings.
  • Submit personal Annual Tax Return file of 2019-20 and submit the ATR files of all old and new clients.
  • Continue working for world-in-eyes, writing, and publishing 12 articles (3 articles/week).
  • To continue working on YouTube Channel and upload at least 4 videos in this month of August 2020.
  • Starting Law Practice in this month, I will start to give partially time to law practice.
  • To complete the deliverables of the education project and submit for review and approval.
  • Social Media: to engage the audience on Facebook Page, Twitter, Pinterest, YouTube by providing good stuff on different themes. I’ll be honest about my monthly targets; my true aim is to bring more new visitors and audiences every day. For improving the level of Pinterest, I’ll add at least 60 new Pins directly related to the posts of this month, and the other 60 pins generally linked with my website.
  • I will be prepared for any unforeseen activity.

Conclusion

If you are ready to plan your monthly goals, then follow all the above given 5 steps to set up your goals of August and follow the following instructions to achieve on-time and within allocated resources. Ensure that the planned goals are added to your daily to-do list. Put the sticky notes on your computer screen, bathroom mirror, and on your wall calendar. Set reminders on your mobile.

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Last Updated: July 31, 2020

How to become more resilient when things get tough

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Abu Janus
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Life cannot always run on the same road, ups and downs are the unavoidable parts of it; because change is inevitable no one can stop it and nor can avoid it. When you experience the change, you must become more resilient to face the obstacles and challenges because; change always comes with different favorable or unfavorable situations. So, therefore, it so important to understand, how to become more resistant when things get tough because everyone resists to accept and adopt the change and goes through dealing with stress.

What is stress?

The stress is the moment you perceive you can’t manage the pressure, whatever that pressure is, be it work, too much work relationship difficulties, your body goes through the stress response and your mind goes through the fight with stress and the tough situation. When your body goes through response to stress, that the sixty percent of the frontal part of your brain starts to shut down and you need the frontal part of the brain for decision-making, now if you only have 40 percent availability to make the decisions.

It is going to reduce your decision-making so without a shadow of a doubt the moment you become stressed is the moment your decision-making abilities go out the window by about 60 percent. So, you are going to be making irrational decisions. Secondly, the interestingly the part of the brain that is responsible for emotions, it doesn’t shut down, so you have a hundred percent availability of the emotional center on and only forty percent of the analytical and decision making so is it a surprise you get annoyed more easily? Is it a surprise you may become more emotional?

Stress Management

It always reduces your resilience, when your resilience decreases your stress increases when your stress increases your resilience decreases. So, within that circle there has to be a point where you stop that so what can you do to help switch that part of the brain that starts to shut down the front of it back on?

In this situation, you must control and understand how to become more resilient that is one of the best things you can do is to step back, come away from the situation and start to breathe take, take about a three-minute breathing space, so step back move away, breathe in through your nose and then out through your mouth, it is literally like this.

Increase resilience and response to stress

The moment you do that you start to change the stress response, you start to switch on that part of the brain, suddenly starts to go like this and it means then you are starting to manage your stress and increasing your resilience. It only takes around three minutes, but you need to take responsibility for doing that. Most of the people who are in a stress response don’t want to do anything about it, their body is wanting them to stay, there so you have to make a decision. A choice to do those small things done consistently make a difference. This is the one thing if you do it time and time again starts to rewire your brain and increase your resilience.

How to become more resilient

become more resilientAny time we are overwhelmed by confusion, it disturbs us like which direction to take, which decision to make, or how to answer at all. The willingness to deal with tension and adversity is simply resilience and it only stems from trusting in yourself. Let us learn how to become more resistant to face the situation when things get tough. The resilience is the process of being able to come back easily when you get a tough time in life, here are the ways to deal with tough times and become more resilient in your life and career.

Improve Competency

When you stop thinking, the process of learning stops, and as a result, you start dying in different ways. No matter what competencies you have and what degrees you have acquired. Your name tags and designation will become valueless if you stopped learning. Everything related to your personal development, ability, and skills always required improving your competency level on a daily basis to become more resilience.

Build self-confidence

No one is born with boundless self-confidence. It comes through something you have learned and adopted and now you have command on your that skill to present, to prove, or to use for your next steps. Improve your competency and build your self-confidence it will make you able to respond to stress and become resilient in tough times.

Network and connection

If you want to be more successful in your business, then increase your professional connections and build your professional network. Because one of the most important things you can do to advance your career is setting up a network.
Establish a strong network as strong you can build and expand it, maintain it, and use it effectively.

Character Strength

Those that are more flexible have learned to push life through barriers and challenges. Because the ability to come back when life is pulling you down is called resilience. The level of your resilience builds the strength of your character. Your character gives you the courage to make it through difficult times. This allows you to pay attention to the nuances of your own experiences, to listen to your feelings, and to be able to learn from deceit and disappointment, as well as from performance and inspiration.

Increase contribution

Don’t stop learning and don’t stop giving contributing, no matter whatever environment it even it is tough or toughest. You must increase your contribution because resilient people always try to find a way to care for others and performing their duties.

Coping mechanism

Actually, resilience is the ability of peoples to live in tough situations. The coping mechanism means the way of living and coping with problems. Those are more resilient people, who are living in different natural and manmade disaster zones. The current example is the COVID-19 pandemic, it affected the whole world, but people remain safe who have a strong immune system. Same as people of the desert had been facing drought for decades and now, they have a strong coping mechanism to face the disasters. According to your business, you must have a strong coping mechanism to face a tough time of life.

Conclusion

Resilience is not only a struggle, but it is the impact of your struggle in the shape of your skills, ability, competence, and strength to perform in any condition, any time and on any stage. Developing resilience will help you deal with change, transitions, obstacles, losses, disappointments, and mistakes and bounce back. Try to adopt the strategy to understand how to become more resilient when things get tough.

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Last Updated: July 28, 2020

6 Powerful habits that can change your life and career

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Bee Jay
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I read somewhere that survival is only about change because everything is going through an evolutionary process and is changing. It is very difficult to accept the change because habits never change. If you want to change your life and career you must adopt some positive and powerful habits. The only luck is not the powerful element of a successful life, but good and powerful habits can make you lucky, talented, perfect, and successful that can change your life and career.

6 Powerful habits

Success does not come with a magic wand, but it comes with living your life with a complex strategy of good and powerful habits. Let us discuss some powerful habits that can play an important role in your life also that can change your life and career.

Habits that can change your life

habits that can change your lifeFollowing are the 6 powerful habits that can change your life and career.

Regular Meditation

“Meditation is like a gym in which you develop the powerful mental muscles of calm and insight.” – Ajahn Brahm

Meditation truly plays a very important and vital role in changing your life and career too. Now some of you people definitely think that how meditation can help in changing life so here am defining some of the most important benefits of meditation. First of all, what is meditation, It is an exercise which trains your mind to remove negativity from your mind and to teach how to keep yourself relaxed and calm; as stress is health’s biggest enemy which causes insomnia and fatigue therefore meditation helps to overcome the stress too. The Meditation also boosts your creativity, thinking levels and so on which are a very essential part of your career. Simply meditation maintains you healthy and makes you able in every aspect of your life. So always practice meditation and make a habit of meditating daily.

Gratitude

“Gratitude helps you to grow and expand gratitude brings joy and laughter into your life and into the lives of all those around you.” – Eileen Caddy

This is scientifically proven that making gratitude a habit is really very helpful in changing your life and career, and for spreading positivity in your life. And for changing your life and career you need to improve your personal and professional growth and for this improvement gratitude and positivity plays an important role. You know a “Thank you “sounds much attractive and makes you seem like a trustable and friendly person. Whereas science also says that practicing gratitude also improves your psychological and physical health by helping you in overcoming your toxic and harmful emotions; and by boosting up your happiness level, therefore, practicing gratitude helps you in taking better decisions. So make gratitude a daily habit.

Believe in yourself

Believe in yourself. You are braver than you think, more talented than you know, and capable of more than you imagine.” ― Roy T. Bennett

Just stop a while reading, and think that have you ever thought how much you believe yourself? Or whatever you have achieved yet how you did that? No one of you would ever have thought of this; But here I am with my answer yeah I have thought a lot and even researched a lot and look what I find is just believe in myself had made me a better person now. Believing in yourself improves your self-motivating level and increases your abilities for achieving your goals. Making a habit of believing yourself will help you in your every worst situation in which deep inside you must have a feeling that you can do that. therefore, if you really want to change your life and career make it an everyday habit. Always believe yourself, you are able to do anything.

Avoid Self-comparison

“Personality begins where comparison leaves off. Be unique,  Be memorable,  Be confident,  Be proud.” – Shannon L. Alder

You know in this nowadays world avoiding self-comparison completely seems to be impossible but let me clear that, it just seems to be, but it really isn’t impossible. Self-comparison badly affects your life and, on your career, as it creates a negative spiral. Therefore, always avoid self-comparison and find your uniqueness in everything. Your personality should always reflect your real image neither it should reflect someone’s else image. And always celebrate your every single or small achievement it keeps you inspired of. So, make this a daily habit.

Good relations

“…good relationships are based on kindness. On putting the person, you love before yourself. On thinking of what you can do to make that person happy. Good relationships require kindness, commitment, and appreciation” ― Jane Green

Good relationships are a very necessary part of your life, and they bring lots of changes in your life and also on your career too, they bring lots of positivity in your life. As it is said that a human is a social animal and all his or her achievements somehow definitely depends on the types of relationships which he or she has with others, with those people whom he or she surrounds with. These good relationships become your support system, and these relationships keep you strong and optimistic. So always try to keep a good relationship with every single person whom you work with or live with; and keep this your daily habit for changing your life and career.

Reduce fear of failure

“I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can’t accept not trying.” – Michael Jordan 

No one has a fear of failure, but everyone has a fear of the negative consequences of failure. The fear of failure results in decreased self-esteem, being pessimistic, refusing difficult jobs, and bad habits like cheating, avoiding discuss the business matters. It is one of the negative habits which can be become the reason of unsuccess in your life and career. If you would like to reduce your fear of failure you must adopt these powerful habits that can change your life and career; 1. Don’t hide your mistakes and weak skills, 2. Address your problems through enhancing your skills, 3. Learn from your mistakes and failures, 4. Plan your goal and objectives, 5. Focus on your plan and goals. 6. Note down the possible questions about fear of failure and go ahead.

Conclusion

There is not any perfect manual of living a perfect and successful life, but the case stories of the successful person are the perfect road map and a social manual of living a successful life. Above mentioned 6 powerful habits are the experiences of successful persons around the globe. If you are facing some hindrances in your life or career go through these points, adopt these powerful habits that will change your life and career.

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Last Updated: July 27, 2020

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