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Every day a new story: Five days from my childhood memories

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It is the 11th day of 30 days 30 blog challenge; and it made me mad because I recalled my childhood, viewed many blurred images of friends and relatives which are no more with us now. Today’s topic is “Every day a new story: Five days from my childhood memories”. If you would like to read the full series of “Every Day A New Story”, you can reach by clicking here on each day a new story Day-1, Day-2,  Day-3, Day-4, Day-5, Day-6, Day-7 and Day-8, Day-9, and Day-10.

Every Day A New Story

Very few peoples remember what exactly happened at an early age. childhood means before 3-4-year age, but I am not lucky enough from those. Most of the peoples don’t remember childhood movements, but I have tried to recall my memories and tried to write down to share with dear readers with the continuity of the 30 days 30 blog challenge.

The childhood period

According to the common understanding the childhood period of all human life about 13 years means form infancy (1-2) to adolescence (12-13). It is the period when we don’t feel the social, economic, and legal boundaries, but feel the tree is too long and like to fly with butterfly, the sparrow. Try to touch the stars, clouds and catch the moon. Hence, the happiest period of the lifespan is childhood, because of this the very simple and free from all unlimited desires, free from duties and responsibilities so the kids are not greedier like an adult human.

My Childhood

My childhood is not more different from a villager’s (local person) childhood when I tried to recall my childhood memories, some blurred images reflect in my mind, I again tried to remember more memories but I didn’t go behind the age of 4 or 5 years. I would try to share all childhood memories till I have been lived in a village named “Jogi Marhi” [Jogi= Yogi or bagger + Marhi= temple (small temple) means a sitting place of yogi].

Five days from my childhood memories

Childhood is a series of different stories, every day a new story just tries to recall your memories. Following are the five days from my childhood memories, I could not forget in my life.

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Ghost Shadow

I remembered a horror memory; my younger brother was only two days and he became ill (now I can realize that was tetanus). There were no any clinic in the village and old women and men told me that there is a ghost inside him. They called a local exorcist, he started reading some special world speedily and blowing on the body of my brother (he was born only two days before). When my parent felt that the knowledge of exorcism is not working, then they called on another exorcist form the nearest villages, he performed his practices.

Hypnotism  

I remember I was seated in front of him, then he put the blue ink in the lid of the bottle and ask me to see in it and I silently did that. He again started telling some world and asked me to repeat these words, I did that, after few minutes I saw some images in that blue ink and told them that what I was seeing in that ink. After the one-hour exercise, he again started reading some specific sentences speedily and blowing on my brother.

Diagnosis and treatment 

But after the second day my father called a doctor from the nearest village. He came there on the camel and he diagnosed and treated. I don’t say know who was right that doctor or exorcist, but baby gets well after a few days, now he young married, father of three kids and performing his duties as a government teacher.

School Life

As I tried to remember my childhood memories. I saw me sitting on the ground under the neem tree in between about 40 other boys and girls. I saw a teacher is sitting on the chair and he is teaching us, what subject is that I don’t remember, because one teacher was responsible for all subjects and more than one class.

In my primary school there were two-room (made up of unburnt clay bricks) and one hut. The hut was for middle school students, one room was for class 1, 2 3, and second, was for class 4-5. So, therefore, there was not enough space for all students, so my classroom was under the neem tree. No matter what is the condition of the weather? Today my kids are demanding air conditioned classroom but how I completed primary education they don’t know.

Water fetching

One other important memory is reflecting in mind. I am feeling thirsty but walking behind two donkeys. Those are pulling a rope from the deep well still I must walk for 10 rounds. Underground water and deep dug well are the main source of water in the Thar Desert. On an alternate day we were fetching water for our drinking, domestic use, and water for animals. We were required 50 to 60 rounds of putting water pot in well and pull out with connected rope with the help of donkeys.

Wood Cutting

Here is one more interesting memory of childhood. The firewood collecting from the jungle was the responsibility of children, still the same practice is existing here.

We the children of our hamlet were used to go to the jungle with a rope and an ax to collect the firewood. It was the routine of everyday after returning from school. I remembered, that we were the expert in knowing the symbol of different reptiles on desert sand including lizards and snakes. Always were catching different snakes, sometimes killed them some time left to go. Routinely in the desert, no one can leave snaked live going. They killed before it bites to them, every year many peoples die with the bite of snakes.

Natural Ponds (Tarai)

I remember it like it was yesterday, it was the monsoon season, Thar desert got good rains, all the natural pond (natural depression) were filled with rainwater. I was collecting sweet (fresh) water from the natural pond (Tarai). We were spent the whole day in the natural ponds, try to swim enjoy the open available water for only one month. We were enjoying this water, and different organic wild vegetables in which one is mushrooms of the desert. After enjoying the natural swimming pole (Tarai), I was collecting mushroom, trying to catch some locusts for enjoying the dinner. Also, I was collecting the beautiful blue-green feathers of Peacock, the peacock throne feathers every year in monsoon season. I was collecting selling out 8 pieces per one PKR, but now children selling one piece in 5PKR. The childhood memories are making me mad now.

Conclusion

What were the days? how to prioritize only five days from my childhood memories. Still I remember different games like Kabdi Kabdi, Vanjhwati, Gabri (these are the local names of games). We were playing every evening and the entire nights under the open sky during full moon nights. There are many other memories like stories of my grandmother, religious celebrations, marriage events, camel riding, horse riding, etc.

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Last Updated: May 11, 2020

Every day a new story: Five Best Habits of Mine

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Bee Jay
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Five Best Habits

The 10th day of 30 days 30 blog challenge is Sunday; the weekend helps me to realize and reconcile the list of habits which are good, and which are bad. Today’s topic is “Every day a new story: Five best habits of mine”. If you would like to read the full series of “Every Day A New Story”, you can reach by clicking here on each day a new story Day-1, Day-2,  Day-3, Day-4, Day-5, Day-6, Day-7 and Day-8 and Day-9.

The Habits

Habits play a vital role in your everything, in your success, in your failure to even. The habits are two types number; 1). let’s do unsuccessful desires wishes and dreams that I missed keeps you away from doing those things which you want to do. 2). good habits mix your life as heaven they help you lot in making your life peaceful.

Some good habits you must follow

If you will list down, you habit you will record numerous habits and the causes of those habits that why these are good and why are bad. When your will record the “five best habits of mine” your will be able to prioritize your good habits. Here are some good habits for successful peoples.

Exercise

Daily and early morning exercise is the best way to start your day. Exercising in the morning keeps you energized the whole day, it is a good way to maintain a healthy routine. Research says that a person takes about two months to stick a habit. Morning exercise gives you as much energy that none of the others can give. The morning exercise builds a better mood. It makes you feel happier; because when you exercise then sweat is released in which certain chemicals are carried out from bodies that are responsible for stress. It prevents hypertension. therefore, regular exercise is the best way to keep your blood pressure in control. Regular exercise improves your sleep, an exercise in the morning is more effective than the exercise in the evening or afternoon time; a morning exercising person experience deeper and longer sleep.

Think about the day-night before

This is the best habit to do advanced planning; because if you move forward without planning then you can’t achieve what you want to get, or it can also happen that your plan goes wrong then if you haven’t thought before then you can easily get up by your path. Even every successful person says that he or she plans their day out the night before; and on the next day goes according to the list. So always plan your day and set your goals for the upcoming day a night before. There is a famous saying that “life doesn’t always work out as planned but with the plan, you can adjust without losing momentum”. So, therefore, always keep planning.

Knowing the personal experiences of other

Reading or knowing about the personal experiences of others is much inspiring for everyone. it also increases your learning and understanding capacity. We learn a lot from another person’s experience. They teach us many lessons. We get much able to judge whether what’s true and what’s wrong; we learn about what we have to do or what we haven’t to do; which is the right thing, and which is the wrong thing for us. We get inspired by other personal experiences because when we know about other experience then that is saved in our memory. So, therefore, whenever we got stuck in any situation where we give up then we can easily look at the person’s experience and get hope by that.

Spend every day as it were the last day

Life is too short; we even don’t know when we have to leave it. Life is just full of sadness. no one knows what future brings for us; no one knows what he or she is going to accomplish in upcoming days; no one knows what he or she is going to experience; but as this is also true that life is also full of happiness, it is full of surprises, what we have to do is just make the most of our every movement; to live in every moment, because there is nothing guaranteed in our life. everything is temporary even as we are too. So, take benefit of everything; do whatever makes you happy; spend your every day as if it were the last day, don’t be worried about anything.

Dress well

Good looks matter a lot. The good dress gives you the courage, it builds your self-esteem; your confidence and it is the first thing which other notice in you. Therefore, dressing well is the best habit.

Let us record your habits, do analyzation of those, and prioritized that which are in your control and which are not? Which are good and which are bad?

Bad Habits Impacts

“Good habits are the key to all success. Bad habits are the unlocked door to failure.” ― Og Mandino

Always remember that keeping control of bad habits is not easy, these bad habits may the cause of destroying your happiness, planed goals, and strategies of a better future. The bad habits stop you thinking capacity and keep you stuck, and you will take actions you never want to do. On the other hand, bad habits make you unhappy and unplanned person. So many peoples have many bad habits like, unplanned life, living a mediocre life, blaming others, problematic, worrying life, dependent on others, postponing goals, trying to control everything, living in the past, etc.

Let us try to eliminate all the negativity and bad habits from life, it will multiply your happiness and will minus all sorrows of life.

Conclusion

“Be comfortable with being uncomfortable with negative habits.” ― Edmond Mbiaka

It is proved that bad habits can’t be eliminated but can be replaced, so let us try to understand why you fell these are bad habits and what are the losses of these habits? After that slowly and gradually replace all these bad habits with some positive and good habits. The most important and fist good habit is to do now, so be ready and start it now.

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Every day a new story: Five rememberable things of life

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Abu Janus
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rememberable things of life

aIt is the ninth day of 30 days 30 blog challenge and the topic is “Every day a new story: Five rememberable things of life”. If you would like to read the full series of “Every Day A New Story”, you can reach by clicking here on each day a new story Day-1, Day-2,  Day-3, Day-4, Day-5, Day-6, Day-7 and Day-8.

Life is too short

The life is too short; to
live
love
proud
help other
positivity
acceptance
plan
achieve
fight for right
But
How we people find the time for;
…. negativity?
…. fight for negativity?

Live is too short but it is the most precious thing in the world. You have not to control external factors, which can be the causes of loss of the precious things in life and you feel negativity in life.

Movements of the life

There are so many movements of the life you don’t remember, you don’t share with the world, you don’t forget your whole life. If you are selfish and living for only yourself then you are limited and your memories, and most memorable movements are also limited.

Life is too short and in this short life there were so many movements happening which are still alive in heart and mind. No matter which was good or bad had been shared or not. When, I look back on my whole life I found so many good and bad movements of life-related to social, cultural, educational, economic, and in the relationships.

Five rememberable things things of life

The rememberable things of life depend upon your priorities, and some priorities are most precious, and some are normal to bad. Most of the happy moments you spent with your selected relationships, but very limited happy movements with blood relationships.

Educational and career turning point

I always feel unhappy when someone doesn’t understand my positiveness and react negatively to me. Many times, I take risks and make hard decisions, in which one decision I took when I completed High School, and got admission in college. It was my wrong decision to get admission in my nearest college and selected pre-medical, but I was good in mathematics than biology, it was the matter of career counseling and no one guided me properly. It was the career turning point, but lack of awareness and career counseling chose the wrong direction. I never shared this before.

University Life

The most memorable days are the four years of university life. Each step is rememberable, I have written a book named “days of campus and nights of the hostel” and I have shared the many memorable events of four years. My last comment diary is the witness of those events, love, care, and happy movements.

Social

Society and social relationships are the most important things in life. The society and the impact of the social relationship on life, in which the family is the top important factor of society.

We live with a joint family system, in this system women are more vulnerable, and it has been observed that the woman always victimized by another woman. I always spoke on the side of women and faced may difficulties in society. Very few relatives support my opinion, but most of the female family members support my opinion.

Always, remember your family is irreplaceable, no any other replace your family, so you must spend more time with family and use your most of the energy for maintaining family relationships.

Marriage and fist baby

I have already shared in the last post five facts of life, but here I would like to share that I got married at the age of 24 years in November 2002. After two-year God gifted a girl baby in 2004. It was the turning point of my life, I left teaching and joined the development sector. Now she is studying in Girls Degree College, in first-year pre-medical, in the future, she wants to be a JUDGE and join the judiciary department.

Inter District migration

When, I was in fifth class we left the village and settled in the nearest town Islamkot. It the  one of most rememberable things of life, when my son joined the fifth class, we moved to the nearest city and the district headquarter of Thar Desert. Thank God, I have my own house and we are living happily.

Coming Ten Days Stories

Every day a new story: May 10 to May 19, 2020

  1. Five best habits
  2. Five days from your childhood memories
  3. Five days of your first job
  4. Five counties you want to visit
  5. Five goals of 2020
  6. Five goals of life
  7. Five-way to share your proudest movement
  8. Five-way to share your proudest movement
  9. Five most important days of your life
  10. Five favorite books you have read

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10 DIY Homemade Face Masks – LifestyleGuru

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Bee Jay
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Homemade Face Masks

Good looks are the most essential need of everyone. I always care my readers and share some tips to be attractive, and beautiful. Here are 10 DIY homemade face masks for your try and use.

Everyone wants to look more attractive than others. Everyone wants radiant glowing smooth and attractive skin. No one wants blemished, oily, acne-prone, dry, tired, rough, or sensitive skin but still, most of us are facing these types of problems.

10 DIY Homemade Face Masks

Face mask plays a vital role in helping us to get rid of all types of skin problems, which we face. Here, I have mentioned the most effective face mask which will give you rid of all sorts of skin problems. they give you the glowing, brighter, and radiant skin. Follow these face masks and surely share with me your experience

Face mask for dry skin

Just got irritated of this dry skin? here I have brought a simple face mask to get rid of dry skin. the ingredients you need that are 1 avocado, add 1 tablespoon of honey, 1 tablespoon of Almond oil, and one tablespoon of yogurt, now mix it well until it begins a smooth mixture. now apply it gently onto your face and let it sit for 20 minutes after that rinse off.

Face mask for dull skin

Dull skin is the only thing which is commonly more. here is a simple remedy, for making this face mask you need mashed papaya and add one egg (use egg white only that is much effective) and mix both ingredients well. After making a smooth mixture apply it onto your face and let sit for 15-20 minutes.

Face mask for acne problem

Acne-prone skin is the most favorite skin of everyone. huhh too silly to think that. None of you wants acne-prone skin but, acne-prone wants you. it sounds awkward but this is a reality. because nowadays almost every age girl is facing this. but don’t worry here is a simple face-mask remedy. for making this you need one banana and mash it completely after that add 1 tablespoon of honey, 1 tablespoon of turmeric powder and finally it 1 tablespoon of mint juice and mix it well after that apply and let it sit for half an hour and after that rinse off with cool water ( tip point: before using this face mask firstly clean your face and use an ice cube and rub over entire face after it applies for best result).

Face mask for rough skin

For making a face mask for rough skin you need one cucumber juice and add 1/4 cup of raw milk with one tablespoon of honey and mix it well until it becomes a smooth mixture. after that apply directly on your face and let sit for 15 to 25 minutes after that rinse off with cool water.

Face mask for sensitive skin

Have sensitive skin and got tired of this? then you are at right place here I have brought very simple homemade face mask, which is much effective. for making this miracle face mask you need 1 tablespoon Cocoa powder and one tablespoon honey with one tablespoon yogurt and mix it well until it becomes a smooth mixture. After that apply it and let sit for 10 mints after that rinse off….

Face mask for oily skin

For getting rid of oily skin there is an easy face mask which if you use then you will surely be surprised by the result. for making this oily skin face mask you need one 2 cups of cold oatmeal and add 1 tablespoon of lemon and also add 1 egg too and now mix it completely. after that apply it and let sit for 15 to 20 minutes after that rinse off with cool water.

Face mask for tired skin

As you get tired of doing more work so does your skin too, it also gets tired. and now you are tired of your tired skin. here is a way to get rid of tired skin, for making this face mask you need one lemon juice and add 1 tablespoon of olive oil or you can also add 1 tablespoon of almond oil and add 2 tablespoons of sugar mix it well to make a mixture after that apply it on your skin and let sit for 15 to 25 minutes after that rinse off with cool water.

Face mask for blemished skin

For making a face mask for blemished skin you need 1 butternut squash and add 1 tablespoon of honey and add two drops tea tree oil and pureed in a food processor until it becomes a smooth mixture after that apply on your skin and let sit for 20 to 25 minutes after that rinse off with cool water.

Face mask with vinegar

For making a face mask with vinegar you don’t need any type of extra ingredient just take 1 tablespoon of Apple Cider vinegar and add 2 cups of water and stir it to mix it well after that apply and let sit until it dry. after that rinse off with normal water. this face mask is used for all sorts of problems, because Apple cider vinegar has quality two tighten your pores and it is a good cleanser too.

Mango madness cleansing face mask

For making this you need a mango firstly peel it off and after that mash it until it becomes soft you don’t need any other ingredient now just massage that soft and pulpy mango and then let it sit for a few minutes to dry after that rinse it off.

I hope that you will be satisfied with these results or face masks enjoy it stay safe, stay happy, and keep smiling, and find pleasure in everything.

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Every day a new story: Five School Age Friends

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School Age Friends

It is the seventh day of 30 days 30 blog challenge and the topic is “Every day a new story: Five School Age Friends”. If you would like to read the full series of “Every Day A New Story”, you can reach by clicking here on each day a new story Day-1, Day-2,  Day-3, Day-4, Day-5 and Day-6.

Friendship

“Two things you will never have to chase: True friends & true love” (Mandy Hale)

Friendship is the relationship that we chose, but it is not an accidental relation. The friendship is a relationship that doesn’t need to pay back, don’t ask questions if the friends your support. The friend is an ear who can listen to your sorrows, or a shoulder for you to cry on, or the person who can understand your difficulties and questions. Find a person who is always ready to fight with the whole world for you.

No requirement for friendship

A sweet friendship refreshes the soul. (Proverbs 27:9)

There is no requirement of age, sex, color, caste, or creed to make a new friend. You can make a friend or be a friend, whenever your mind accepts someone who accepts you when you spend more time together and talk about your matters with each other. Your trust each other and help without questions, and you encourage each other to make the right decisions of life.

Past 30 Years

Today I looked around the past 30 years, from the high school age to today’s professional time, I found the number of my friends from school and college-age is more than this professional age. After the completion of university-level education and joined professional life one few names, I counted on my friends’ list.

School Age

I tried to remember the days of my student life, it makes me happier because there was a very small reason for happiness and a small reason for worries. It was the time of the 90s, during this decade I passed high school, college, and university level education. That time there were no phones, no mobile, no Dish TV, no electricity, and only one thing was available that was time for everyone.

My mind is sketching of those days, there were 97 students in my class IXth and Xth. Still I remember the names of most of them. I have come to know that a few of my class fellows and best friends are no more with us.

Difference of friendship on different life stages

It’s the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter. (Marlene Dietrich)

I always discussed with myself, that how my high school, college, university, and this professional lifetime friend are different, thought the quality and quantity both are different. Still I can fight with school life friends about can do this with this time friend. I found that we count the benefits of time but not the number of friends during professional life.

Five School Age Friends

Five School Age Friends

It is not easy to count only five names, but I have to add only five School Age Friends names for this post so therefore adding here five names;
“Not all friends know they have lost you.” (Joyce Rachelle)

  1. Gulab (Development Professional)
  2. Faqir Nawaz Ali (Government Officer)
  3. Mukesh Raja (Professor)
  4. Vikram (Police Officer)
  5. Munwar Ali Sagar (Advocate)

Five University friends (May 8, 2020)

Department of Botany University of Sindh Jamshoro

When I share the post with friends, my university friends said how you excluded us and how you differentiated in friends. We are friends and just friends. I have shared the information in the WhatsApp group they shared some photos.
I am sorry the quality of photos is not good, because that time was not digital, the photos had been clicked with 36 click role camera (Yoshika).

Five friends in the Park of Botany Department University of Sindh

It was the time of 1996-97 to 1999-2000. I remember we had celebrated the new year and new century too. I have photos of all my dears and near classmates, friends, and caring ones but due to some social norms, I don’t like to share the photos of my female class fellows. Now they all are mothers and their kids are the students of college and university.
I want to discuss the “days of campus and nights of the hostel” but it may create some difficulties in the relationships of my caring and loving friends of university age.

With five friends in Genetics Lab, Botany Department University of Sindh

A few days ago, a classmate girl called me and said do you know me, I told no madam my phone is not showing your photo. She said I am your classmate “Sumera”; I told no there was no any my classmate by this name, finally, she told her real name. I asked where from you got my cell number, she said, many times I searched your name on Facebook, finally today I reached your profile and got your cell number. That time there were no mobile network and internet network.

My five-best friends

  1. Ashok Kumar Maheshwari (Area Manager State Life Insurance)
  2. Jeewan Mansha (Taluka Education Officer)
  3. Javid Bhutto (Local Government Department)
  4. Faisal Ansari (Professor)
  5. Satram Das (Fine Artist)

Coming Ten Days Stories

Every day a new story: May 8 to May 17, 2020

  1. Five University friends
  2. Five rememberable things you never shared
  3. Five best habits
  4. Five days from your childhood memories
  5. Five days of your first job
  6. Five counties you want to visit
  7. Five goals of 2020
  8. Five goals of life
  9. Five-way to share your proudest movement
  10. Five-way to share your proudest movement

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