Everyone know that, we are all born alone and die alone. Different societies of the world are the example of living styles. As we believe in strong social norms of our societies. Which connects us each other as we live in a world of constant contacts. But apart of all these norms, spending time alone make the man creative. So try to “Be Alone, Be Creative” and get amazing benefits of spending time alone.
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Be Alone Be Creative
“As I get older, I’m more and more comfortable being alone”- (Sienna Miller)
The norms of society, strong traditions and religious norms always make bound us with family, relatives, neighbors, groups, nations and then our global society (this lovely world). All these also provides us bad companies, bad companies environment and good companies too. But the new emerging e-system, social sites, social apps continuous encouraging us to connect with all above pillars with e-system.
“Autobiography begins with a sense of being alone. It is an orphan form”- (John Berger)
We are adopting new modern technologies and very speedily running away from physical relations. We have no time to meet with family, friends and relatives to discuss our own matters, but we have enough time to discuss globalization issue on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest, Blogs and many other sources.
“I love to be alone. I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude” (Henry David Thoreau)
I am not encouraging youth to live alone because there are so many benefits for people being involved in social interactions. Because, by evolutionary experience of depending upon each other, we are a social species and we are affiliating with others for our very survival in a harsh world. In a society like America’s, it can be sublime and revealing to enjoy your time alone.
But, on other hands, “the creature of this beautiful world is alone” and there are amazing benefits we can avail through spending time alone. Leave bad companies and be alone be creative: As Amy Sedaris said, “I think it’s good for a person to spend time alone. It gives them an opportunity to discover who they are and to figure out why they are always alone”.
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Benefits of Spending Time Alone
“Never say you are alone, for you are not alone, your God and your genius is within”~ Epictetus
1. Spending Time Alone Encourages Creativity:
It’s easier to get into a creative space, when you’re alone so you can dream of new ways of doing things. You can come up with innovative ideas and we can write down your thoughts or you can ponder better approaches to get things done. It’s just when have focused and not interruptions impeding your musings and thoughts.
2. The Time to Recharge:
A human can’t work like machine, you need rest, I relate to feeling exhausted after full day working, you need to take time for yourself and recharge your own machine (body). Again, I want to make clear that, I am not discouraging to be a social but just encouraging you just switch off your all connections and live sometimes alone and recharge yourself.
3. To Enjoy Your Own Company:
You will be a best friend to others, when you will be able to learn “to be with yourself”. When, we saw an alone girl is reading a book at the window side seat of train, don’t decide that she is lonely and spending alone among society or being selfish is not always a bad thing. Sometimes be selfish is better than spending time with bad companies.
Just try to ask about your limitation to yourself and run alone on unlimited ways of your mind and Discover hidden mind powers & how to use them.
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4. You Can Do Anything You Want To:
Just spare only one hour a day form your very busy life, leave our plans, leave your meetings, leave your all programs and spend alone with yourself. In that time, you can do whatever you want, sing, dance, meditate, draw your thoughts, write-down your emotions, feelings. You can do anything you want when you spend alone.
5. Get Proactive About Creating Time to Be Alone
A society is a group of peoples with common territory, interaction and culture but society is not he name of diversity and we are social species by evolutionary experience. By nature, human had been thinking to be a part of diversity and they established the pluralistic Societies, An American Society is the example of Pluralistic Society because it is composed of many groups of peoples.
By society we have so many bindings, must follow them by nature we are alone, and we are able to make presentable our beautiful ideas for other by spending time alone. Just try to create the quit time for yourself it will give back to you the best version of yourself.
“Imagination is more important than knowledge”- (Albert Einstein)
The re so many amazing benefits you will find when you keep practice of spending alone but not limited;
- You will explore your interests by spending alone.
- Can wear whatever you feel like wearing,
- You can eat whatever you want to eat,
- It will teach you a lot about yourself.
- You can be yourself without judgment.
- Will not be being influenced by others around you.
- You will improve the quality of your relationships with others.
- It will help you become more independent.
- You will Increase your Emotional Intelligence
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Don’t wait for inspiration, you must go after it, Of course! spend time alone, will boost Your Productivity:
last updated by Lifestyle Guru: 11/03/2019
I love this! I always get a bit uncomfortable when alone because I grew up in a large family and went straight to married life with kids. Quiet shouldn’t be unnerving, but rather embraced.
Adrienne, your endorsement and feedback is encouragement for me.
Anytime! I always enjoy reading your posts. This one is of great value to me. I must get used to enjoying my alone time.
I never related emotional intelligence with the benefit of spending time alone but now that I have read it, it does make sense! These are all great benefits of alone time!
I love your list! I was once a social butterfly. I had so many groups of friends in my younger years. And I couldn’t imagine being alone because they won’t leave me alone! But now that I’m older, I use my time alone to be creative, to reserve my energies for priorities, and yes, I enjoy my own company because I was supposed to be an introvert that was forced to become extroverted by peers!
Thank you CA for your for your comprehensive feedback… I have also crossed the 40, but since my college age I tried to use few minutes/hours alone and speak with myself …….
I have always enjoyed spending time alone, though I never get much because I am usually surrounded by my kids. Lately, though, with the current world events and social distancing, I am missing getting out with my friends. Generally speaking, though, I love this article! It’s spot on.
Thank you friend for your this lovely comment.
I was once an extrovert turned into introvert. I love to talk to people especially if the subject makes sense. Although I want some good chit chats, most of the time, I am just quiet but still, I love observing my environment. I love those who silently do their job and accomplish them at the end of the day instead of those who complain endlessly but never gets a job done. 🙂
Yes I agree with this, as a mom I need some time alone. To have at least a time out for all the rush and pressures I encounter everyday.
Right after my breakup with my ex I spent about 6 months alone and really loved it. It was a good time to get to know myself and really figure out what I want.
He’s very nice to have some alone time it can help us reflect on our decisions or just relax
I love being alone. I’m irritated when my kids and husband are always around me. I need space.
Being able to be alone is very empowering. Not a lot of people can cope. It can be scary 🙂 Great post
I don’t get much alone time right now with everyone home. I need the house to myself day
I absolutely love being on my own. I’ve grown up in a very busy family and so having the opportunity to sit down and do what I want for an hour is amazing for me. It really helps with my mental health
Sometimes it isn’t good to be alone but everything has its own advantage and disadvantage. To me, being alone is everything.
I prefer to be alone than with people most of the time. I don’t necessarily like my own thoughts etc but I like just watching what I want, playing games and escaping.
I am an introvert so my alone time is super important to me because it helps me to recharge and to be super productive. Crowds are not a great place for but I don’t mind speaking on stage. Weddings where I know people can also be a lot of fun. I do enjoy the quiet time so that I can read a lot.
Before the pandemic, I would love to spend weekends by myself as I could recharge and just enjoy being with myself. It does wonders!
I love being alone. If you can’t love your own company, how can you love being with others? The former has to come first before the latter will ever happen.
I actually need my alone time. If I don’t have it for awhile, it gets to me.
I am a firm believer in the importance of finding a balance between connection with our loved ones and spending time on my own. This gives me the chance to center myself and reconnect with myself as well, which is also an important relationship in my life – the relationship with myself!
I love spending time alone and definetely need it sometimes!
Being alone is a great way to recharge your batteries and to spend some time deep in your thoughts. However, it not good to be alone for a long time.
I do like my alone time. Not to sit and think…I’ll go crazy that way…I like alone time to work, cook and paint. Painting is what is meditative to me 🙂
Often not everything we want we get, but it is not bad if we learn in this way to “teach” our husband some qualities.
I think spending time alone can help you understand yourself better and see your life under different angle. I still prefer company but need to be alone from time to time to grow